Many tops, being sadistic and non-masochistic, simply won’t hit themselves hard enough to understand. A top’s understanding/empathy is also a vital element in avoiding a backlash of resentment and anger from a bottom, as well as fear and sadness. Blowjob sex Slapping the face is generally considerably different and more risk-prone than slapping the body. How about the calm before the storm where the face is warmly and lovingly caressed then suddenly delivered a solid slap in the same area, or the sensory deprivation slap where the intended has no idea of the slap to come, or the tap slap where lighter hits are given repeatedly and quickly, or the regimented slap, a Sergeant Major vs Private in-your-face type of slapping style. You CAN do it safER. A Note to subs/slaves/bottoms
As with anything, and especially in the lifestyle, communication is so important.
